The term fall in or out of love has always bothered me. For me, this term means that your agency has nothing to do with love. But agency was given to us to make choices that can bring us closer to our Savior. We do have the agency to choose who we love and so continually showing love towards our spouse is our choice and when we feel that we have fallen out of love with them it is because we stopped choosing to love them.
Before my husband and I made the choice to marry we talked about love and what it meant to both of us. We both believed love was a choice. We both saw something in each other that we knew we could love forever but only if we chose it everyday. Though it has only been 2 years for us, there are days when it is hard to make that choice. But it is taking it one day at a time and as I take it one day at a time I can focus on the positive things in our relationship.
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